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If you do run across someone who wants a “casual relationship”, or “short term dating” as they say on OKCupid, then you will want to ask sooner rather than later what that exactly means to that person and make sure you are ok with the terms.

Why are there so many guys asking for FWB now at our age? I think for one it is because it has become more socially acceptable.

2, many men are going through “the horny phase” of post divorce, the first 6 months after separation, and just want to have some physical intimacy to drown out the pain.

They also may have been shut out physically from their former wife since sex is often the canary in a coal mine for relationships.

They may have been dreaming about having lots of sex with lots of women for a long time and are now following through as much as possible. many people get stuck in the “I never want to get married again” phase of divorce and think that they can still have physical intimacy without ever getting hurt as badly as they did in their divorce by never loving that much again.

I have heard complaints from men that it is not just the women either! some people have already had 3 or more marriages fail and pretty much realize they are not cut out for it.

They are not willing to have a life of celibacy so casual dating is a way to get the intimacy and companionship they need without getting caught up with one person.

The problem is that with most casual dating there is a rush to intimacy.

This leads the man to feel trapped, the woman to feel a need to chase and the whole relationship collapses, leaving no one satisfied, according to the book Mars and Venus on a Date: A Guide for Navigating the 5 Stages of Dating to Create a Loving and Lasting Relationship"Mars and Venus on a Date.

What can you do if you get offered a casual relationship?

Just say no to casual dating relationships if they are not for you.

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