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Bette Davis once said that getting old is not for sissies.

Well, many women would argue that the same comment applies to dating after 60.

Not only are there statistically fewer men, but the dynamic of human engagement, and style of personal connection, has changed dramatically since we were dating in our 20’s.

His assessment requires a fundamental shift in thinking – women must not be afraid to make the first move!So what’s a midlife woman who was raised in a world where men were “supposed” to make the first move do?Here are a few ideas to help you get the hang of dating after 60.Social media has opened wonderful doors of connection, so, don’t be afraid to look up a single high school friend and even consider attending your next reunion or class event.Use Linked In to casually say hi to interesting men you’ve met at events.You will find out soon enough if they are married or committed, so, for now, just be friendly and see what happens.Let single girlfriends know that you are actively looking for a relationship – maybe they know someone who is perfect for you!Another place to meet interesting men is the good old standby, the coffee shop. Sometimes just asking whether the chocolate muffins are any good is enough to start a great conversation. You’re not looking for the love of your life (although it would be nice to find him).Many men come in every day to get their cup of chai or latte. Start a casual conversation with the man standing in line and smile! At this point, you’re just looking to make a friendly connection.When you sit down, don’t immediately pull out your mobile phone or book. When you are out with a dog or young child, there is a natural and comfortable energy about you.This weekend, grab your dog and visit your local park.

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